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Erectile dysfunction

by Serendipidy Haven

Spam email is not something I tend to suffer from – I have rather robust measures in place to avoid it, nevertheless, no system is foolproof and some messages do manage to elude my defences. Recently, I’ve had one rogue email that keeps on sneaking through which is offering me breakthrough drugs for my ailing potency. Clearly, these aren’t going to be of much use to me, but I’m quite happy to forward them to anyone who is suffering such unfortunate circumstances.

It does bring to my mind however the whole thorny topic of SL sex – mainly because, I’m reliably informed that gentleman avatars do not come ready equipped with ‘appendages’, which has resulted in a healthy niche market for attachable – and scripted – dangly bits. The same is true, of course, of lady avatars who when they come into the virtual world are similarly ill-equipped for, shall we say, full functionality! Personally, I do of course, completely understand the desire to look and ‘feel’ that all the appropriate bits are in their rightful place and that our avatars are not bowdlerised freaks of nature, but when it comes to the whole properly performing protuberances position, I’m less than persuaded.

I’ve always been a little surprised by the sheer lengths (no pun intended), and not inconsiderable expense, some male avatars will go to in order to primp and preen their tackle – maybe it’s a male thing, I don’t know. As for myself, I’m perfectly happy if things look anatomically correct, and are generally kept covered up in public – and that goes for the female variety too. I really do question the need for something that has a full range of angle of dangle, is capable of producing a wide variety of questionable bodily secretions in various doses, can perform tricks, and (for all I know) is able to sing The Star Spangled Banner in fourteen different languages!

To be absolutely honest, the whole realm of pixel sex is something that leaves me rather bemused. I have – of course – tried it, who hasn’t? But, I really cannot see the attraction of it, or understand why so many seem so so obsessed with it. After all, at the end of the day – and I shall put this as delicately as I can – one’s real pleasure is likely to be ultimately taking place in private and is a purely solo affair, stimulated by what is occuring on the screen in front of one; and with that in mind, I really don’t understand the allure that watching simulated activities perpetrated by pixels could possibly hold. To me, it’s no different really to watching Fred and Wilma Flintstone getting it on together – and I find it quite difficult to grasp how on earth such cartoon antics can be a turn on? That said, it is true that the brain is the biggest sexual organ, so I can appreciate that there’s an awful lot of imagination in action, but surely there are better and more imaginative ways to employ it, even in the context of SL?

To me, bumping pixels is about as stimulating as watching pixel paint dry, once you’ve jumped on the poseball/bed/other ‘adult’ contraption, you may as well just wander off and do the hoovering in RL, have a cup of tea and catch up on your emails, than sit there bored and throwing in the occasional emote to show that you’re still participating. Maybe I’m just doing it wrong, or maybe I just need more in the way of stimulus to get me going? (This, by the way, is not an invitation to all and sundry to offer to show me how to do it properly, or to suggest that I just haven’t found the right person yet, and perhaps I might like to take advantage of their services to demonstrate that they are ‘the one’!)

So, straightforward virtual bonking is, as far as I’m concerned, a bit of a mystery – sure, if it works for you, great, but for me it’s a no thank you. I can however see where SL can play a role, and that’s when one starts to move away from the stricly vanilla to more exotic flavours of fun and shennanagins. There is a great variety of more adventurous entertainment to be had that may not be available to us in RL, and which perhaps might not even appeal to us in a real world context, or is dubious, questionable or patently impossible for us to even contemplate for real, (not that I’ve ever allowed that to deter me 😉 ). Yet inworld, we can give it all a go – even if it is to all intents just make-believe – and experiment, experience and enjoy a whole range of sexuality that may be denied us in real life.

But, as for plain old pixel porn… Nah, you can keep it!

s. x

But shoot it in the right direction
Make making it your intention – ooh yeah
Live those dreams
Frankie Goes To Hollywood – Relax

Serendipidy Haven | August 25, 2017 at 11:41 am | Categories: PhilosophicalisticalityRLSL | URL: http://wp.me/p17sWN-3Ci
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Relaxed

by Serendipidy Haven

Yesterday was a quiet evening inworld: A taking it easy, pottering about, nothing much in particular evening. There were no events planned, nowhere in particular I had to be, and nothing specific I wanted to be doing. After logging in, I caught up on a spot of building, then joined a couple of friends at our virtual ‘local’, where nothing much occurred, other than a bit of chat and socialising.

There were none of the frantic goings-on that so often accompany everyday virtual life, nothing particularly exciting took place, and the time was memorable only because it was so quiet and so little of note occurred to report.

It was all very pleasant, and a good time was had by all.

Sometimes you have moments like that in SL, and I find that rather than just settling down for a couple of hours of rest and relaxation, many of us are prone to thinking that something must be horribly wrong… Have all of our friends deserted us?; Has the virtual world come to a grinding halt?; Did Facebook usurp SL while we weren’t looking? Alternatively, we may lean towards that peculiar feeling of guilt that nags us from inside…. rather than sitting in front of our computer screens doing very little of merit with our time, we should instead be doing something else more rewarding instead – running marathons, mowing the lawn, feeding the kids.

We’ve become acclimatised to thinking that if we’re logged on inworld, we should also be active in some way and that it is somehow worrying to simply be killing time, taking it easy or just chilling in the company of friends. Unless we’re being chased by zombies, dancing the night away or doing a spot of virtual sightseeing, we seem to be under the impression that somehow we’re not making the most of our time in SL. I find that quite odd, especially since – if we weren’t logged in – there’s a very good chance that, in the alternative, we’d be whiling away the hours chuckling at cat pictures, swiping through pages of status updates on social media, or investigating the weird part of YouTube, thanks to that interesting looking link we clicked three hours earlier. Somehow, although we might acknowledge that we really should have been doing all those other things that might actually be a little more important, we don’t feel quite as guilty as we do when just idly passing time in SL.

Yet, there’s nothing at all wrong with doing just that, whenever and wherever the mood takes us, and if that does happen to coincide with a couple of friends doing exactly the same thing, then what really is the problem with that? Whilst it could possibly feel like we’re frittering away our time when we could maybe be doing something a little more constructive or productive with it, surely what we’re actually doing is making use of SL in exactly the way it is intended – as a diversion from the real world; a means to escape from the demands and distractions of RL. Even better if we happen to be doing so in the company of friends, even virtual friends: after all, this is a social platform and socialising doesn’t necessarily mean doing any activity in particular, it can just be passing the time in the company of friends, with no agenda, other than simple companionship.

I some ways i think that maybe we occasionally need to take time out from the hectic round of activities, events, and planned excursions and become a little more laid back in our approach to what goes on inworld. Perhaps, now and again we need to switch off and enjoy a bit of downtime rather than trying to fill it with activity, especially if we can do it in the company of friends.

I hope to have lots more quiet, unstructured evenings inworld in the future – opportunities to reconnect with friends at a more human than virtual level, and if we end up just killing time, so what? As far as I’m concerned, that’s time very well spent.

s. x

Take it easy (easy skankin’);
Lord, I take it easy! (easy skankin’);
Take it easy (easy skankin’);
Got to take it easy (easy skankin’).
Bob Marley – Easy Skankin’

Serendipidy Haven | July 17, 2017 at 9:52 am | Categories: PhilosophicalisticalitySL | URL: http://wp.me/s17sWN-relaxed
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Welcome Back to Second Life

Yes I have been away for a while and my lovely friends through me a psychedelic party. Was great fun they had elephant avatars too cute. Rosalee Icanardi built the set and its gorgeous. Here are some pics and a video at the end.

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Special thanks to Rosalee, Storm, Bridget and our fab DJ Siani.

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Good Friday

 

I’m not putting the whole post here as its not really sl but its an important piece. You can read it here:

12 Worst Ideas Religion Has Unleashed on the World

We all need to change how we think and how we act to our fellow humans. Love and Peace

 

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Perspective

From my friend Serendipidy Haven’s blog:

Perspective

by Serendipidy Haven

vangoghA brief trip to the National Gallery recently brought me face-to-face with Van Gogh’s ‘Sunflowers’, or at least, one of his variations of this most well known of his subjects. Sunflowers was my main reason for the visit – since i’ve never seen the work in the flesh before, but it also gave me the opportunity to become re-acquainted with another of his paintings that has pretty much passed me by up until now.

Van Gogh’s chair has never really inspired me or struck me as being particularly special. It lacks the thickly daubed, tormented brush strokes of his later pieces and the finesse displayed in his other works of the period. It’s a peculiar thing, worth getting up close to; where the warped, almost child-like perspective of the composition is offset by the painstaking attention to detail the artist gives to the most mundane of features. You’re struck by the effort that’s gone into painting the door hinges, knots in the wood and the weave of the chair seat… but, on this occasion – for the first time – i stepped back, and suddenly everything changed.

From the middle of the room, the painting that had always struck me as rather flat and distorted resolved into something entirely different. It was almost as if i was seeing through Van Gogh’s eyes, sat at his easel, glancing over the canvas towards the chair on the other side of the room. That bizarre perspective which offends the eye when seen in close up, becomes completely natural and lifelike when viewed from a distance – the painting becomes less a flat canvas and more a three dimensional moment in time, captured in oils. It was an unexpected and somewhat humbling moment.

paint_001How often do we see things from our own viewpoint with  a skewed perspective, failing to understand what is right in front of our eyes, and not seeing the picture as it really is? Probably quite often and, as users of sl, it’s something that we’re very used to experiencing from the ‘outside’ world. Those who’ve never had the opportunity to properly get to grips with becoming part of a virtual world tend to have a distinctly distorted picture in their minds of what sl is about. Like me peering closely at Van Gogh’s canvas, they’ll seize on the little details that make sense to them, whilst remaining utterly puzzled and bemused at the bigger picture. So the common perception of sl, from those who have no experience inworld, is that it’s an environment that’s primarily about pixellated sex, a ‘game’ played by geeks sat in their basements with curtains drawn and snacking on cheese puffs. They seize upon the bits that stand out to them and write off the larger part as irrelevant, uninteresting or incomprehensible.

It’s a matter of perspective. And perspective works both ways.

The perspective from which we see sl differs dramatically according to where we stand – on outside looking in or, equally, on the inside looking out – and we residents can be just as guilty of skewing the overall picture as those who have no experience of the virtual world. From the inside, we are terribly good a painting pictures of sl from a palette based entirely upon our own perceptions and experiences, rather than taking a balanced view, (this is something that ex-residents, in particular, can take to an extraordinary degree). The result is a very narrow-minded and distorted view of sl… the servers are always down, it’s full of griefers and content stealers, it suffers from nightmare lag, gacha events are corrupt, and so on. Even when we’re positive we tend to pick and choose to focus on the bits that matter to us, ignoring the fecundity of the virtual community and excluding whole swathes of SLife that we personally have no particular interest in.

Perhaps it would do no harm to occasionally break these self-imposed rules and try to look at things from a different perspective – who knows… perhaps that aspect of sl that you never understood, never appealed and that you’d managed to convince yourself was of no worth at all, might look very different from a different angle, or when you take a step back and try to appreciate what it’s all really about.

Or, you could just stick with the perspective you’ve got, and maybe miss out on a much bigger picture.

If you’re not swayed then think on this a moment: Vincent Van Gogh was completely unappreciated in his lifetime, purportedly only selling one painting before his death. Now he’s one of the most recognisable artists that has ever lived, and his paintings sell for millions. Just imagine how all those people who turned him down and derided his work might have felt if they’d known how he’d now be appreciated. Sometimes, focussing on the details and the ugliness of what we perceive means that we can be blind to the potential and the beauty of what we are seeing.

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s. x

Now I think I know
What you tried to say to me
Don McLean – Starry Starry Night

Excellent stuff well done Seren

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Help

I use the Firestorm viewer for Second Life and it is very good. I have been using it for over a year and just upgraded to the latest release.  Yesterday had what I thought was a disaster. I couldn’t see mesh the 3D modelling of objects. There were just gaps where clothes would be. I thought my graphics card had broken, and it had. I had just updated the drivers. However I didn’t know this and I asked friends what to do. They took me through various settings nothing worked. Then it was suggested I ask the FS Support group in chat. I joined the group and typed my problem into chat. Almost immediately the answer came that I had to roll back my drivers to an earlier release. It was the new AMD drivers that were doing it. So I did a system restore. Everything went back to 4th December. And everything worked.

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So my Firestorm does not support certain builds of AMD drivers. I went back to release 13, 14 seems to have problems in its various forms. Finding this out took a matter of seconds. What a great resource to have that Chat. Excellent stuff. I watched it yesterday and picked up some tips. It seems no problem is too small to help, from fiddling with a graphics setting to a complete install. Well done Firestorm. They also have a wiki and JIRA and forums. http://firestormviewer.org

 

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Sigh

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New System and I love it!

Yes its super. Great processor oodles of RAM and a good graphics card. Second Life flies without any jerkiness. But as i realised many years ago the front end aka monitor is one of the most important things. I bought a computer in 1994 spent over half of the total cost on the 17 inch monitor which I still have. I have a 22 inch with a blemish on the bottom but its still usable. I didn’t “need” a new monitor. BUT this was a computer upgrade so it had to be better than my last system. I was scared about spending so much money on a new 27 inch monitor. I debated whether to buy a higher resolution than 1920 x 1080 but the price doubled. And now I am glad I didn’t. As my old 22 inch runs at 1920 x 1080 I discovered I can merge the two into one without any disparity in the resolutions. There is no need to resize any window for the smaller to larger monitor and vice versa. One screen slides seamlessly into the other. In the video below you will see second life captured over two monitors seamlessly. The clarity of the new monitor is great and trust me 27 inches is far bigger than 22 inches. Having trouble with the capture but below gives you an idea. YouTube isn’t big enough LOL. Heres the capture but it doesn’t do it justice….



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Tails From The Cat Shop

Great new book out from Storm! Must Read! Click on the picture to buy.

Fantasy meets Reality in Cyberspace, in a world where our online and offline experiences, friendships and even, our identities are excitingly entangled. Avatars are extensions of us, leading lives parallel to our own dull everyday existence. There are no limits to our Virtual Lives and we are free to live in any World we choose. Having a Virtual Life sets you free to dream and some dreams do come true.

Storm and Dude are partners. In spite of the fiercely opposing time zones, they meet and fall in love on the dance floor of the Junkyard Blues Club in the Virtual World of Second Life. They begin collecting breedable cats and their Second Life gets very crowded, so together they open Not Another Kitten, a Cat Shop in Cyberspace. Then the Cat Shop meets the University and both Worlds collide with laughter.

Meet the Divine Penny, the Italian-speaking Siamese cat, with the delicate chocolate paws, and find out if Professor Poppett’s poodle recovers from ‘indoor barking syndrome’. Go on an adventure in the alligator infested bayou to hunt for the Golden Kitten and find out why love always wins the day.

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Quite an achievment. Started as a blog and became a book. Well done Storm very proud of you!


Heres the URL again : http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IFRFR7G

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Happy Birthday My Storm

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Hey Its your Birthday! A day to celebrate your days on the plant! Hope you treat yourself to something nice. You have changed my life ( for the better- lol) Hope you have a wonderful day.

Much Love

Dude / Philip

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